Now and Men

Sandy Ruxton & Stephen Burrell

What's it like to be a man in the 21st century? How are feminist issues relevant to men and boys? How can we engage in productive conversations about gender equality? These questions are being discussed more than ever. Our monthly podcast delves into these issues with experts such as practitioners, activists and academics. In each episode, you’ll hear in-depth conversations about a wide-range of topics connected to masculinity and the lives of men and boys, from supporting men's health, to preventing gender-based violence, to promoting involved fatherhood. The podcast is hosted by two social science researchers, based on the opposite sides of the world: Sandy Ruxton from Durham University's Centre for Research into Violence and Abuse (UK) and Dr Stephen Burrell from the University of Melbourne (Australia). If you would like to give us your feedback, suggest a guest, or have a question you'd like us to discuss, get in touch at nowandmen@gmail.com. And if you like what we do, please share us with your friends, and leave a review!

  1. 5D AGO

    Addressing the Gendered Harms of AI and the Tech Industry - Prof Clare McGlynn

    How are artificial intelligence and other technologies exacerbating misogyny and undermining women’s rights and safety? What are the emerging forms of violence against women and girls being facilitated by AI, such as deepfakes and nudify apps? What is driving so many men to view and create such material, and how is it shaping their sexual attitudes and behaviours? What actions are needed to address these harms, and by whom? For many years, Prof Clare McGlynn has been at the forefront of efforts to tackle the devastating impacts of online violence against women and to establish stronger forms of regulation. Central to her work on sexual violence are the perspectives of victims and survivors, particularly their understandings of what justice means to them.  In this episode, we explore her approach to these issues and some of the challenges involved, including the masculinist dynamics of the highly profitable tech and porn companies, and obstacles in attempting to regulate the transformation of these industries in recent years.   Clare also talks about recent aspects of her influential advocacy work.  For example, she provided legal expertise to the successful campaign to persuade the UK Government to adopt a law criminalising the creation and solicitation of sexually explicit ‘deepfakes’. We explore too her work to reduce the easy and growing availability, and adverse impacts, of extreme and abusive pornography (including ‘strangulation porn’ and ‘incest porn’). She outlines her involvement in the campaign to tackle the harms of strangulation in mainstream pornography.  We conclude by discussing with Clare what led her to focus increasingly on online and tech-facilitated harms in her work, and how her sense of responsibility and justice sustains her in continuing to research such distressing issues.  Clare is a Professor of Law at Durham University, with particular expertise in the legal regulation of pornography, sexual violence and online abuse, especially image-based sexual abuse (i.e. taking, creating, and sharing intimate images without consent). In 2020, she was appointed an Honorary KC (Kings Counsel) in recognition of her exceptional work within the legal profession. Clare’s website: https://www.claremcglynn.comDurham University profile: https://www.durham.ac.uk/staff/clare-mcglynn/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clare-mcglynn-32b898238/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claremcglynn_/ Episode timeline IntroductionHow AI is deepening gender inequality (02:34-04:21)Emerging AI-driven forms of violence against women (04:21-06:08)The masculinist dynamics of the tech industry (06:08-08:52)Why attempts to regulate Big Tech have been so lacklustre (08:52-11:31)The new UK law Clare helped to introduce criminalising ‘deepfake’ images (11:31-16:44)Why the criminal law can be a useful tool for feminist campaigners (16:44-19:34)Why debates about ‘carceral feminism’ should not be reduced to either/or (19:34-24:23)Victim-survivors’ wide-ranging perceptions of justice (24:23-26:27)BreakWhat is driving so many men to engage in image-based sexual abuse (26:35-29:56)Why the online world is not simply a reflection of wider society (29:56-31:35)The role of pornography and how it’s shifted over time, e.g. ‘incest porn’ (31:35-36:55)The personal impacts of doing...

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  2. JUN 12

    Is Masculinity Worth Saving? And How is Radical Feminism Relevant to Men? - Dr Finn Mackay

    Society is obsessed with masculinity, and constantly discussing how it's 'in crisis'. But how helpful are these debates? Can masculinity be reshaped as 'positive' or 'healthy' - and should that be our focus? In a challenging new paper – 'Positive humanity, when? Is masculinity worth saving?' – Dr Finn Mackay argues that policy aimed at saving men and alleviating their suffering does not address men's humanity, but is erroneously focused on 'saving' masculinity. Instead, Finn believes we should aspire to be positive, healthy people and equal human beings, without needing to have our identities as men reinforced. Rather than recycling tired biological essentialism, Finn concludes "it is time for men and women to start acting like we really believe we are not separate spheres, but on the same planet, with the same needs for love and care, the same need to matter to our communities, the same need for life". Finn advocates for a radical feminist analysis, arguing that it offers positive solutions to the problems all of us face - including men and boys. The episode discusses Finn's 2021 book 'Female Masculinities and the Gender Wars: The Politics of Sex'. Based on research they conducted on lesbian and queer masculinities in the UK, they explore the challenges and obstacles facing those who do not fit into strict boxes of sex and gender. This is particularly topical given the recent ruling by the UK Supreme Court that the terms "woman" and "sex" in the Equality Act 2010 refer only to "biological women" and "biological sex". Decrying the widespread scapegoating and demonising of trans people, Finn argues they have become easy targets for regressive gender conservatism.  Finn ends by talking movingly about their personal journey from growing up in rural Scotland, to living at women's peace camps outside military bases, and the impact that feminism – especially radical feminism – has had on their life. Finn is a senior lecturer in Sociology at the University of the West of England, and they have a long history of feminist research and activism. Prior to academia, Finn was involved in education and youth work on issues including domestic violence prevention and anti-bullying. In 2004, they founded the London Feminist Network, and revived the tradition of London Reclaim the Night. Their previous book 'Radical Feminism: Feminist Activism in Movement' (2015) set out a pioneering feminist manifesto analysing the reasons for women’s oppression and what feminist activism must do to counter it. Finn's personal website: https://www.drfinnmackay.co.ukUWE profile: https://people.uwe.ac.uk/Person/FinnMackayBluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/finnfox.bsky.socialLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/finn-mackay-87a593345/‘Positive humanity, when?’ paper: https://doi.org/10.1080/09589236.2025.2502679‘Radical Feminism’ book: https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137363589‘Female Masculinities’ book: https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/female-masculinities-and-the-gender-wars-9781350466623/ Episode...

    1h 8m
  3. 'Patriarchy Inc.': Gender Equality at Work - Prof Cordelia Fine

    MAY 15

    'Patriarchy Inc.': Gender Equality at Work - Prof Cordelia Fine

    Why do men still benefit from higher pay, status, and power at work? What is the ideological and cultural underpinning that sustains the gendered division of labour? What are the harmful effects of workplace inequality on poverty, health, family life and women’s status? These are some of the key issues that Professor Cordelia Fine addresses in her witty and insightful new book ‘Patriarchy Inc.: What We Get Wrong About Gender Equality and Why Men Still Win at Work’, which is listed as one of the non-fiction books to read this year by the UK Financial Times.  In our discussion, Cordelia draws on a wealth of evidence to explain how ‘Patriarchy Inc.’ operates, and how progress in dismantling unequal gender arrangements is stymied by two false visions: the ‘Diversity, Equality and Inclusion (DEI)’ approach, and the ‘Different but Equal’ perspective. Instead, she argues for a set of commonsense reforms which would benefit everyone. These include reorientating societies and workplaces around the assumption that most workers will have caring responsibilities; setting aside definitions of job ‘fit’ and success that exclude women and other marginalised groups; and addressing how the gender system is embedded in childhood.  We also explore some of the themes from her earlier book, Testosterone Rex, which won the Royal Society Science Book Prize. The book challenges the powerful myth that men and women have evolved fundamentally different natures, and that testosterone is responsible for ‘hard-wiring’ male brains to, for example, take risks, compete, and be violent.  We conclude by discussing her motivations and influences as a writer, and the role of humour in her work.  Cordelia is Professor in the History and Philosophy of Science at the University of Melbourne. She was awarded the prestigious 2018 Edinburgh Medal for her work challenging gender bias in science, and was recently named as a living legend by The Australian newspaper.  Buy the book: https://atlantic-books.co.uk/book/patriarchy-inc/ (UK) https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/books/9781838953355 (Aus)Cordelia’s website: https://www.cordelia-fine.comHer University of Melbourne profile: https://findanexpert.unimelb.edu.au/profile/126041-cordelia-fineLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cordelia-fine-240773250/ Episode timeline IntroWhy Cordelia wanted to write ‘Patriarchy Inc.’ (03:49-08:01)Why she takes issue with the ‘Different but Equal’ perspective (08:01-15:30)Why the ‘DEI’ approach is also insufficient (15:30-27:06)What her ‘Patriarchy Inc.’ approach adds (27:06-33:42)How we can foster genuine equality in the workplace and society (33:42-42:41)Break‘Testosterone Rex’ and why men’s violence can’t be reduced to biology (42:52-50:55)Fatherhood and why Patriarchy Inc. doesn't work for any of us (50:55-52:12)The use of humour in writing (52:12-55:38)What led Cordelia into researching the science of sex and gender (55:38-01:00:13)Conclusion [The nuances of DEI, Progress being non-linear, The role of trade unions, Capitalism and fatherhood, Valuing care] (01:00:22-01:06:49)

    1h 7m
  4. On ‘Adolescence’, and Every Man’s Role in Ending Violence Against Women - Jackson Katz

    APR 16

    On ‘Adolescence’, and Every Man’s Role in Ending Violence Against Women - Jackson Katz

    Discussions about masculinity and violence against women have exploded into the spotlight, not least because of the widely-watched Netflix drama ‘Adolescence’. More and more men are asking: Why is ending this violence an issue for me? What can I do to be part of the solution? How can I overcome the barriers holding me back from taking action, such as feelings of defensiveness? These are some of the pressing questions leading anti-violence educator and scholar-activist Dr Jackson Katz addresses in his timely new book, 'Every Man: Why Violence Against Women is a Men’s Issue, and How You Can Make a Difference'. In this episode, Jackson sets out the case for men’s involvement, and essential tools to help us contribute to preventing violence against women: from how to respond when a friend or colleague expresses misogynistic views, to changing the culture among our peers, to developing positive leadership among men on this issue.  We also discuss ‘Adolescence’ and its impact on, and implications for, parents, teachers, police officers and other key figures and institutions in young men’s (and women’s) lives.  We conclude by revisiting the political situation in the US, and how men are responding to the backward-looking narratives coming from figures like President Trump and Vice-President JD Vance about what ‘real men’ should be like.  Jackson is an American educator, speaker and writer internationally renowned for his groundbreaking work on issues of gender, race, and violence. His TEDx Talk 'Violence against women - it's a men's issue' has been watched 5.5 million+ times. He co-founded the pioneering gender violence prevention programme, Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP), which was the first large-scale prevention initiative in sports culture and all branches of the US military, and has been rolled out in schools across the US and parts of the UK.  Jackson’s book ‘Every Man’ is now available in the UK through Penguin, and will be published in the US by Bloomsbury in Sept 2025: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/every-man-9780241672662 Find out more about Jackson’s work: https://www.jacksonkatz.comHis writing for Ms Magazine: https://msmagazine.com/author/jkatz/Follow him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackson-katz-ph-d-b7785b3/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacksontkatzWatch his TEDx Talk, ‘Violence against women – It’s a men's issue’: https://youtu.be/KTvSfeCRxe8 Episode timeline: IntroductionJackson’s views on ‘Adolescence’ and its impact (02:26-06:53)Showing the series in schools (06:53-10:11)Why Jackson wrote ‘Every Man’, and the difficulties of getting a book on this topic published (10:11-14:52)Why men might respond defensively, and how to move past that (14:52-20:52)The positive impacts of feminism on Jackson’s own life (20:52-27:29)BreakThe bystander approach and what it looks in practice (27:36-35:26)Its use in settings such as the military, and a different kind of leadership (35:26-43:52)Masculinity in the Trump 2.0 presidency, and signs of resistance (43:52-53:47)Why men need to face our fears of being ‘unmanned’ (53:47-56:54)Conclusion [The lessons of...

    1h 7m
  5. Getting to the Roots of Men's Violence in Australia - Tarang Chawla

    MAR 19

    Getting to the Roots of Men's Violence in Australia - Tarang Chawla

    Tarang Chawla knows firsthand the devastating impacts of men’s violence, and the ripple effects it sends through families and communities – including on other boys and men. This is what led him to set up Not One More Niki, in memory of his younger sister Nikita who was murdered by her partner in 2015. Tarang is one of Australia’s most well-known and outspoken male advocates against gender-based violence. He talks to us about where he thinks Australian society needs to go from here in its efforts to end men’s violence against women, after a year in which a series of terrible murders brought this onto the agenda in a way not seen before.  We also discuss the position of gender equality and masculinity in the upcoming Australian federal election, including on issues such as ‘law and order’; coming to terms with racism and colonialism in Australia and the UK; and why understanding boys’ and men’s experiences of race and class can help us to reach out to them more meaningfully.  Tarang is an award-winning speaker, writer, advocate, and recovering lawyer. Among other things, he is a Commissioner at the Victorian Multicultural Commission, and a sessional academic at Monash University and the University of Melbourne. He also wrote, produced and hosted the first two series of the acclaimed podcast There's No Place Like Home. Tarang’s website: https://tarangchawla.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tarangchawlaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tarangchawla/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tarangchawlaonlineNot One More Niki: https://www.instagram.com/notonemorenikiThere’s No Place Like Home: https://www.futurewomen.com/theresnoplacelikehome/ Episode timeline Intro and acknowledgement of countryTarang’s journey into working to end men’s violence against women (03:17-06:28)Media portrayals of men who use violence (06:28-10:49)Talking about the ripple effects of men’s violence (10:49-14:04)The obstacles of masculine expectations (14:04-16:15)Men’s experiences of child sexual abuse (16:15-21:30)Being a spokesperson on these issues as a man (21:30-27:42)BreakThe impact of recent high-profile murders of Australian women (27:53-32:17)Debates about prevention work in Australia (32:17-36:35)Masculinity in the upcoming Australian election (36:35-39:09)Discourses about being ‘tough on crime’ (39:09-43:00)The pushback against equity and diversity initiatives (43:00-46:06)Racism in Australia (46:06-49:12)Understanding men and boys’ own experiences of marginalisation (49:12-54:43)Conclusion [Addressing sexism and racism simultaneously; Punitive responses to crime; Coming to the terms with British colonialism] (56:06-01:02:09) More info “Earlier this month, it was announced that former AFL player Ben Cousins will join the Seven Network’s commentary team” https://www.smh.com.au/national/ben-cousins-new-tv-job-is-offensive-to-women-20250314-p5ljni.html“Locking up young...

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  6. Confronting Backlash - Aleks Dimitrijevic

    FEB 19

    Confronting Backlash - Aleks Dimitrijevic

    The backlash against gender equality, or what its advocates describe with terms such as 'gender ideology' and 'wokeism', is reaching an ever-rising crescendo in Europe and countries across the globe. It poses a major threat to the hard-won achievements of the feminist movement. But what are the forces pushing the 'anti-gender movement' – and how should we respond to it? How is it manifesting itself differently in different countries, and how are politicians exploiting it? How is it seeking to antagonise men's insecurities, whilst offering few solutions to the problems they face? And what can organisations working with boys and men, and each of us as individuals, do in this critical moment? Expert Aleks Dimitrijevic provides us with vital insights.  Aleks is the co-founder and president of Men Against Violence in Malta, and a member of the Steering Committee of MenEngage Europe. He talks to us about how Malta was until recently the only country in the EU to completely outlaw abortion, how activists are continuing to struggle to lift the draconian restrictions against it, and the personal challenges he and his family have faced for campaigning in this area. Men Against Violence: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100068193336893Men 4 Dem project: https://www.men4dem.eu/MenEngage Europe: https://menengage.org/region/europe/ Thank you to Dom Stichbury and Chaps Choir for our new podcast music, with their song 'Now is time' https://www.facebook.com/ChapsChoir/ Episode timeline IntroductionGender (in)equality in Malta (02:12-05:17)The struggle to lift Malta’s abortion ban (05:17-08:01)Religious obstacles (08:01-10:39)Personal challenges Aleks and his family have faced (10:39-15:04)What is backlash? (15:04-17:05)Key issues for the 'anti-gender' movement (17:05-20:17)Resistance to preventing violence against women (20:17-26:13)The weaponisation of men’s issues (26:13-29:08)The 'men’s rights' movement (29:08-38:15)BreakRight-wing populism and the mainstreaming of the 'anti-gender' movement (38:18-44:53)What people working with boys and men can do about it (44:53-48:27)Who is funding the backlash (48:27-51:36)Communicating in a language men and boys understand (51:36-55:47)Conclusion [Connections with climate denial; Struggles on the left; Parallels with the 1930s; Majority opinion; Building the next generation of activists] (55:47-01:02:24) More info ‘‘Women are treated like walking incubators’: Malta’s fight for abortion’ https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/jun/19/the-fight-for-abortion-in-malta‘Malta to allow abortion but only when woman’s life is at risk’ https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/28/malta-to-allow-abortion-but-only-when-womans-life-is-at-riskILGA – “For the seventh year in a row, Malta continues to occupy the number one spot on the Rainbow Europe Map, with a score of 92%” a href="https://www.ilga-europe.org/report/rainbow-europe-2022/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

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  7. Masculinity and Caring for Nature...and Reviewing Past Episodes - with Dr Cassie Pedersen

    JAN 21

    Masculinity and Caring for Nature...and Reviewing Past Episodes - with Dr Cassie Pedersen

    Masculinity is playing a significant yet under-discussed role in harms against animals and the environment. From hunting, to meat-eating, to driving fast cars, to burning fossil fuels, ‘man’s’ domination of nature is closely connected to gender inequality and masculine norms. In this 50th episode special, we discuss with Dr Cassie Pedersen why we urgently need to break down stereotypes suggesting that it is ‘feminine’ to care for nature, and help boys and men to embrace our interdependence with the world around us. We ask: Do environmental and animal activism challenge gender norms? What can each of us do in our own everyday lives? And how is ecofeminism relevant to men and boys? This is based on a new paper by Cassie and Stephen in the Journal of Criminology, ‘From men's violence to an ethic of care: Ecofeminist contributions to green criminology’. Then, in part two, with Cassie’s help, we review the first 50 episodes of Now and Men. What have been our highlights so far? What directions should the podcast take in the future? And how do we face up to the increasingly authoritarian and destructive times we are living in? Join us in reflecting on the personal and political issues the podcast has explored over the last 3+ years, and what it has taught us about masculinity and allyship today. Dr Cassie Pedersen is a Lecturer in Criminology and Criminal Justice at Federation University (Australia). Her background is in philosophy, with her PhD being on the theory of trauma, and her current work focuses predominantly on green criminology and harms against non-human animals. Read the paper: https://doi.org/10.1177/26338076241293145A recent piece by Stephen and Cassie, ‘It’s time to recognise the role masculinity is playing in the climate crisis’: https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/its-time-to-recognise-the-role-masculinity-is-playing-in-the-climate-crisisCassie’s profile: https://federation.edu.au/institutes-and-schools/ieac/staff-profiles/staf-profiles/cassie-pedersenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cassie-pedersen-a30406153/ Episode timeline IntroductionMen’s violence and environmental destruction (01:46-05:01)Green criminology and ecofeminism explained (05:01-07:28)The relationship between masculinity and violence against animals (07:28-10:47)Why an ethic of care offers an alternative (10:47-14:16)The impact of ecofeminism on Cassie and Stephen (14:16-19:51)Broadening what we mean by activism (19:51-25:19)The gendered dynamics of environmentalism (25:19-31:52)BreakStandout episodes of Now and Men (31:57-36:56)The most significant issues we have and should cover (36:56-44:28)Bizarre and unusual podcast experiences (44:28-48:40)Gender, podcasting, and allyship (48:40-52:26)Episodes we’ve particularly enjoyed (52:26-54:07)What we’ve learned (54:07-56:51)Inspiring figures of 2024, and messages to take away (56:51-01:02:59)End More info Petra Kelly: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Petra_KellyCarol Adams: a href="https://caroljadams.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

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  8. Men and Community Choirs: Finding a Voice - Dom Stichbury

    12/23/2024

    Men and Community Choirs: Finding a Voice - Dom Stichbury

    Why have male voice community choirs become more popular in the UK and beyond in recent years? How are they playing with norms of masculinity? Why is it that choirs often struggle to recruit men? What impact can they have on men’s lives and wellbeing? How are they helping men to connect and find community? And can they help us to build gender equality? In our Christmas Special for 2024, we explore these issues and more with Dom Stichbury. Dom is a choir director, singer, songwriter, arranger, and group singing advocate. He’s the founder and artistic director of London-based groups Chaps Choir and Bellow Fellows, one half of vocal duo Ben and Dom (who do shows and run workshops around the UK), and a member of Oaken (a quartet of singers and choir leaders). He also performs with the Australian-based Spooky Men's Chorale. The episode features recordings of three Chaps Choir’s performances: ‘Alilo’: https://soundcloud.com/chapschoir/sets/chaps-choir-live-union-chapel‘Now is time’: https://open.spotify.com/track/3eVsnZrmVwM0asAJOxwCub‘Drop of shanty’: https://open.spotify.com/track/0GB0HIzocneuONyhxehdIw?si=c0fb1d6bc2bd4344 Find out more about Dom’s work: http://www.dominicstichbury.comhttp://www.chapschoir.comhttps://www.bellowfellows.comhttps://www.benanddom.comhttps://www.oakenharmony.comhttps://spookymen.com Episode timeline: ‘Alilo’ + Intro (00:00-02:27)The story of Chaps Choir and Bellow Fellows (02:27-04:32)The wider phenomena of male voice community choirs (04:32-06:01)International examples and subverting masculinity (06:01-07:24)Recruiting men (07:24-09:52)How the groups have shifted (09:52-11:54)The benefits of being part of a choir (11:54-16:25)Becoming more attuned with our bodies (16:25-18:00)Differences between mixed and men’s groups (18:00-20:04)Making groups inclusive (20:04-22:53)Encouraging people to sing together in settings like prisons (22:53-25:13)Why men are less likely to join choirs (25:13-29:00)Football chanting (29:00-31:14)Expressing emotion and vulnerability (31:14-35:52)‘Now is time’ (32:34-36:52)The potential for choirs to promote change (36:52-39:42)Which groups of men (don’t) take part (39:42-44:25)Bringing a diverse group together (44:25-46:15)Forging friendships and community (46:15-48:15)Singing during Covid-19 (48:15-50:39)How Dom started singing (50:39-53:40)‘Drop of shanty’ (53:17-55:05)Conclusion (54:32-01:01:25) More info: The Best Sing Since Sliced Bread: https://www.bestsingsince.co.ukHuutajat: a href="https://www.huutajat.org/en/" rel="noopener...

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What's it like to be a man in the 21st century? How are feminist issues relevant to men and boys? How can we engage in productive conversations about gender equality? These questions are being discussed more than ever. Our monthly podcast delves into these issues with experts such as practitioners, activists and academics. In each episode, you’ll hear in-depth conversations about a wide-range of topics connected to masculinity and the lives of men and boys, from supporting men's health, to preventing gender-based violence, to promoting involved fatherhood. The podcast is hosted by two social science researchers, based on the opposite sides of the world: Sandy Ruxton from Durham University's Centre for Research into Violence and Abuse (UK) and Dr Stephen Burrell from the University of Melbourne (Australia). If you would like to give us your feedback, suggest a guest, or have a question you'd like us to discuss, get in touch at nowandmen@gmail.com. And if you like what we do, please share us with your friends, and leave a review!

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    Sandy Ruxton & Stephen Burrell
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    58
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    © Copyright 2025 Sandy Ruxton & Stephen Burrell
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